The
Joy of Unconditional Love
Hi
everyone. I was reading Dear Abby the other day.
A woman wrote a letter about how her divorce
(and prodding from a bitter ex-husband) changed the way her loving daughters
acted toward her and it got me thinking about Unconditional
Love.
I felt really bad for her and
wondered how could all three of her daughters change their attitude.
I knew that something is wrong here that went
beyond the surface of just sparing ex's.
I thought about my own clients and realized
something important.
I do thousand of reading and I do know that
parents rarely change their parental attitude (unless of
health issues). Ironically, children sometimes
change their attitude toward parents, and most
women, when asked, will say they don't want to become their
mother. But 'becoming like mom' is a far cry
from not loving one's mom. For some people
unfortunately, they find that they have very
little in common with their mother and simply
don't connect. Likewise, over time, the mother starts to realize they don’t like their kids either.
How sad is that?
Personally,
I can’t imagine not loving my mother or
mother-in-law, or my children. I love them unconditionally
and I'm there for them. But some people just don’t have
the patience or they forgot about unconditional
love. Believe it or not, I have clients that ask me when
a parent will die so they can live their life in
peace. What's truly sad is when the parent finally
does died the child might have 5 seconds of joy,
but in the end they realize what they'll be
missing and have a million questions they forgot
to ask when that person was still alive.
Amazingly enough, the biggest comment I get FROM
the deceased parent on the other side is that
they loved their children unconditionally, but
those kids never took the time to see it.
So how
does this cycle stop? It stops with you
actually...
If you
want things to be different for you and your
children then you need to have patience now and
express your love and support for them while
you're still alive. Children learn what they are
taught. It's that simple. So kids who grow up in
a household with thoughtful communication become
thoughtful communicators...and they learn how to
love unconditionally. That's a lesson the
divorcee in the Dear Abby column learned a bit
too late. The great news is though, if we can
all teach these values of communication and unconditional
love to our kids then the next generation will
be a better off.
Pauline's
Psychic Q & A Time
Here
comes the Newsletter Subscriber
Question of the Month, from a reader I'll call
'Emily' who
asks…
Hi
there,
I just found out my ex boyfriend had cheated on me while we were dating and I feel like everything is falling apart. If you could let me know
what really happened I'd be grateful.
Pauline’s
Answer…
Hi Emily,
One reason Emily
is the fact your boyfriend was only 17 and that’s a very hard age to stay in a relationship.
For a long time, he was too young and wanted to have fun,
but so did you. Another factor was
communication. While we all want true love, we
have a new world now where everyone texts rather
than talks.
Texting is
cold because you can't hear the sound of
someone's voice - the inflection, the pauses,
etc. - which can tell you just as much (if not
more) than the words they are saying. Many
people your age need to realize that texting was
meant as a quick messaging system; not a
standard way to communicate. If you keep this in
mind for your next relationship you'll fair much
better. As for the two of you, I feel that you
will make amends with each other. As for a love
relationship though, it will only last until
graduation because you're both heading to two
different colleges in two different states. You
won't maintain a long term love relationship,
however, the good news is that you'll part with
this understand and as a result you'll always
stay friends.
Now
to all my other readers, if you have a question send it
along. Just make
sure you’re a member of the newsletter and
email me at krystal_ball_98@yahoo.com
with the
subject “Newsletter Psychic Question” to
enter. I’ll continue to answer one question
every newsletter, so send in
your question today.
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