Finding Your Happiness

I recently did a party for a client named Sandy this past weekend. I got a chance to sit down and enjoy everyone’s company. The conversation turned to the subject of how we become stuck in situations, as well as how do you find happiness.

I do thousands of readings, so I will tell you that most of us are unhappy, depressed and lonely. It’s not just you or those close to you. Why? One, we’re too close to a situation (so we don’t have the ability to step back and look at life from a new direction) or, two, we know what the issues are, but we think we’re powerless to change them.    

In either case, that’s where I come in when you see me for a reading.    

I can see where you are. I can tell you where you are going. I can make suggestions on how to get ‘unstuck.’ But like the old adage says, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.

Many clients return after they failed to heed my advice and say, ‘Pauline, I should have listened to you!’ And like the stubborn horse, there’s very little I can do to help people if they refuse the help being offered.  

So here’s a bit of advice...

If you’re in a situation, remember that no one is stuck. You have something called free will - the ability to make choices. For example, if you don’t like your living arrangements because you live with someone who makes you unhappy, you do have options. But often we make excuses ('I can’t afford it,' 'Things will change if I’m patient,' etc.) rather than taking action. Now some of these choices you need to make are tough. Moving out of an unhappy home might change your standard of living. However, your standard of living is never more important than your quality of life. And that’s what most people forget. For some people, change is scarier than the prospect of continuing to live unhappy, so they 'decide' to stay ‘stuck.’    

But for some people, they decide that enough is enough.  They put that fear aside to seek out a more fulfilling life. And you’ll notice these kinds of people are the ones who are truly happy in life. When fear rules your decision-making processes, change for the positive never comes to fruition.    

So remember this truth… We only have one life. 

Find things that will make you happy, even if they might be scary at first. When you tap into your subconscious mind, your higher-self can give you the power to change things for the better.

Now as for this month’s question it comes to us from Becca who asks…

“In March I was one of the many people who were laid-off from the automotive industry.  Since then, I have tried to take this opportunity to find something else that I enjoy doing, and that I am good at doing, as well as making money. So, I went to school to become an Esthetician.  I was excited about the career that I chose, and even though it was a big challenge for me due to my hectic life, I really enjoyed school.  Now that I have graduated, and I’m getting ready to take state boards, I am having second thoughts.  Did I pick the right career?  Will I make the kind of money that I was making in the automotive industry?  Will I even find a job? Now I feel lost and I’m not sure what to do. I’m even starting to feel depressed.  Do you have any insight for me?”

Becca,

Honestly, right now your self-esteem is a mess. You are just nervous about the test, but relax. You will do fine. As for an answer about making the amount of money you did before, yes this is possible.  However, it’s all about finding a job where there are lots of client's. Just remember, it does take time to build a career in any industry. I see you getting a good job working in a spa or doctor setting by May around Birmingham. First, you need experience, so I see you staying there for a year and then moving on. I also see two other place you’ll work at before you’ll be truly happy with the choices you’ve made. Just like with everything in life, it’s about finding the ‘right fit,’ and the good news is that eventually you will.  

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