Finding Your Soulmate

What’s a soulmate? Basically it’s someone you connect with on several levels and who shares many of your views on life. The love is incredibly intense, so much so that your soulmate is an extension of you because there is a bond that is unbreakable between you. So how do you find this person? Actually, there are a few tips to finding your soulmate.

1. Rather than ‘waiting’ for the one, be proactive by becoming the person you would love to love. Are you short tempered? Work on your patience. Do you lack listening skills? Make more of an effort to hear others. In short, work on being the best person you can be. You've got a greater chance of finding your soulmate if you feel comfortable, confident and happy to be you. So the adage of ‘loving yourself first’ does have some merit.

2. Keep an open mind. Your soulmate might not be what you expect. Besides isn’t part of the romantic mystique being pleasantly surprised by finding your soulmate? It could be someone who’s shorter, older, etc. than you expect. It might even someone of the same/different gender (depending on your sexual orientation). The point is, never rule out the chance of love.

3. Be patient. You might meet your soulmate at your eighth birthday party…or when you’re 80 in a nursing home. While imagining a lifelong love affair can be great, remember that life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans. So be sure you have other ways to feel fulfilled.

4. Look at people for who they are and not who you want them to be. Sometimes you’re so set on ‘finding your soulmate’ that you’re looking in the wrong place by projecting fantasies on the wrong person. When that happens, you might miss the real deal.

5. Remember life isn’t perfect. Finding your soulmate doesn't mean you’ll live "happily ever after" because, again, life happens and it’s not perfect. Remember too that finding your soulmate might not happen in this lifetime. It might be the next one, or the next one, or the one after that.

Just remember that finding your soulmate doesn’t make your life simpler and at times it can be down right hard. Also remember, true love is something that requires care and nurturing. But soulmate or not, when you find someone with whom you can grow with, and grow together with, then you can face any challenges that come your way.

Now this month’s question comes to us from Sara who asks…

Hi Sara,

Thanks you for your question. We all want to start the New Year off right and as you know, weight loss is one of the most popular resolutions people make each year. So how can this year be different from years past for you? There are two things you can do.

One is any diet will work when you follow the program and include exercise. Too often people do one or the other, but not both. They find all kinds of excuses for not eating right or not working out.

Second, self-hypnosis (which I also do for clients) works great because it helps you subconsciously by keeping you focused. Again, we girls often cheat on our diets, but with hypnosis, it will help you control those impulses, so you can find success.

Now as for your question, will your weight loss program work this time? Yes, BUT (notice the ‘but’)… once the weight is off, it could still be a problem because you can never go back to the way you eat now. I feel if you truly recognize this fact, I believe you will not spend any more time ‘yo-yo’ing’. You’ll see the results and finally say, ‘Enough is enough. I love the way I look and I want to make this lifestyle change.’

Personally, I was successful with www.trimitdown.com because it was a controlled diet. I’m often too busy to cook from scratch and count calories and such. So these prepared meals really worked out well for me (and made it much harder to make excuses for not eating right). If you lack the time to measure and count then I recommend this program or a similar one.

Now as for your work situation, there is a change in June, but it will be a positive one. I don’t see you leaving your current employer – you’ll just have better opportunities presented to you there.

All that said, with a little patience and perseverance, I feel you’ll find much success in 2010, Sara.

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