Finding Your Soulmate
What’s a soulmate? Basically it’s someone you connect with on several levels and who shares many of your views on life. The love is incredibly intense, so much so that your soulmate is an extension of you because there is a bond that is unbreakable between you. So how do you find this person? Actually, there are a few tips to finding your soulmate.
Tips for Finding Your Soulmate
1. Rather than ‘waiting’ for the one, be proactive by becoming the person you would love to love. Are you short tempered? Work on your patience. Do you lack listening skills? Make more of an effort to hear others. In short, work on being the best person you can be. You’ve got a greater chance of finding your soulmate if you feel comfortable, confident and happy to be you. So the adage of ‘loving yourself first’ does have some merit.
2. Keep an open mind. Your soulmate might not be what you expect. Besides isn’t part of the romantic mystique being pleasantly surprised by finding your soulmate? It could be someone who’s shorter, older, etc. than you expect. It might even someone of the same/different gender (depending on your sexual orientation). The point is, never rule out the chance of love.
3. Be patient. You might meet your soulmate at your eighth birthday party…or when you’re 80 in a nursing home. While imagining a lifelong love affair can be great, remember that life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans. So be sure you have other ways to feel fulfilled.
4. Look at people for who they are and not who you want them to be. Sometimes you’re so set on ‘finding your soulmate’ that you’re looking in the wrong place by projecting fantasies on the wrong person. When that happens, you might miss the real deal.
5. Remember life isn’t perfect. Finding your soulmate doesn’t mean you’ll live “happily ever after” because, again, life happens and it’s not perfect. Remember too that finding your soulmate might not happen in this lifetime. It might be the next one, or the next one, or the one after that.
Just remember that finding your soulmate doesn’t make your life simpler and at times it can be down right hard. Also remember, true love is something that requires care and nurturing. But soulmate or not, when you find someone with whom you can grow with, and grow together with, then you can face any challenges that come your way.
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Finding Your Soulmate
Thursday, April 1st, 2010Is It Possible To Communicate Soul To Soul?
Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009Is It Possible to communicate soul to soul?
Everyone has heard the term soul mate. But did you know that everyone has a soul light? It’s true. What’s interesting about this soul light is that you can contact with another person’s soul light at any time or any place. Best of all, you don’t need to be in the same room, or even the same country, as that person. In fact, you don’t even need to be alive because a soul connection transcends time and space.
How Does “Communicating Soul to Soul” work?
Communicating soul to soul is essentially expressing your thoughts to someone without him or her being directly in front of you because it’s a spiritual connection.
Here’s how it works.
Start by picturing that person physically. Second, start to imagine how you think they feel at that moment. Do they feel withdrawn, inviting, or scared? The more often you do this exercise, the better you’ll become at gauging their emotions.
What’s interesting is that this same exercise can work regardless of whether the person your communicating soul to soul with is conscious, or even alive. The reason is this connection is not tied to the physical world, but rather the spiritual one.
The next step is to imagine that person coming to you with the beam of light that draws you together. At this point you can talk together regardless of where you are — whether it’s a friend across town or deceased loved one who’s crossed over. This talking can also be out loud or internally in your own mind. Either way when you have that connection, the other person will hear you.
Many times people do this exercise without realizing they’re doing it.
For example, have you ever thought about your best friend and then five minutes later they called just to say hello? This is a soul connection, and whether it’s with someone here in the physical world or someone who’s deceased, we all have this power to communicate soul to soul.
